Wednesday, February 08, 2006

Ghusta Nahi Hai In My Head Pyaar Vyaar & All That Yeah!!!

The week leading to 14th Feb. V- day, is marked by a string of weird days having weird names.
Rose Day (sigh I didn’t get any!!), Hug Day (still waiting with arms wide open ;)), Chocolate Day (damn I was so looking forward to it & it turned out to be a holiday) & as far as I have heard Slap day (luckily I am taking an off on that day).

To tell you the truth I believe these days as worthless & just an excuse to party & have fun when no other plausible reason to party exists. Valentine’s Day, yah we have all heard that crap about some St. Valentino & shit but why do we actually require a special fixed date to express our love for someone. Saara pyar ushi din yaad aata hai kya?!
If you really love someone you don’t need no Valentine ’s Day to tell the person how special he/she is for you. To me V-day & other days (with the exception of chocolate day) is just another if those Westernized concepts, a day where Archie’s gallery makes some serious moolah out of selling V-day cards, roses & gifts a day where the Shiv Sena & Bajrang Dal have a field day out of wrecking shops decorated in pink & selling V-day merchandizes.

Interestingly, we often see couples in their teens cozying up during this day, taking oaths that they would love each other forever & the very next year & on the very same date we see those people cozying up with someone else repeating the same oaths. Personally I have nothing against V-day & relationships but I just don’t think that teens have enough maturity to be involved in a serious relationship.And if you people are thinking that ohk,” he’s just one of those weird- girlfriend- deprived- guys” who by the means of this post is expressing his jealousy then forget it coz I aen’t that deprived ;) . This post comes out from my personal experience & observations & also the comments on Kanny’s post titled, “Weirdo Magnet” where many matured people experienced in matters of loooove clearly stated that High School relationships are pure bullshit.How exactly can one expect a 17 year old to decide upon his life partner?!!
What we experience is not lurve it’s just a feeling of infatuation, a mere crush & nothing more. At this stage saying that , “Oh my fuckin lord I am in love!!” is just crap( yah well I used to say that too, mujhe toh 7th class se hii kisina kissi se pyaar hota rehta tha!!!) & what’s the point of getting involved in a relationship when you can flirt with soooo many people at the same time;) Just go ahead & enjoy that feeling of infatuation & that crush coz later in your life you just might look back down & realize how childish all that seemed.

So if you have a Valentine, go ahead enjoy the moment coz kya pata kal ho na ho coz as far as I’m concerned I am going to sit back & watch all the brainless gits out there making a jackass outta themselves on V-day. And I hope Love Guru Abhi was able to bring some enlightenment in you life & help you to detangle your terribly tangled love lives.

Ohk people just cross out everything I said coz this hot gal in my locality has just asked me out for a V-day date………….
Sigh……………..I think I am in LOVE!!
chao
Abhi aka Love Guru

9 Comments:

Blogger Aashish said...

What a load of crap......... i bet if a certain sum1 (wink wink) asked u out right now yer views would change ferever

Nikita....there isn't any hot gal.....i doubt whether there ever will be

Thursday, February 09, 2006 1:08:00 AM  
Blogger Aashish said...

clarification--- i was reffering to the 1 who allegedly asked tandon out ......not women in general....

Thursday, February 09, 2006 1:10:00 AM  
Blogger RaSh said...

Nice Post Abhi! I reckon u r right - We dont need one day to express our friendship or love for someone. But I think someone else has a different view on this..... Read her blog...
kepp posting!

Thursday, February 09, 2006 2:22:00 AM  
Blogger udit said...

cool post bhai. ready or not, celebrating anything is great fun, chahe true love ho ya infatuation, or chocolate. mayb later we might look back and laugh. Just liveeeee life, nt only on V-day but everyday.

Friday, February 10, 2006 5:24:00 PM  
Blogger Aditi Ahuja said...

some1 isnt commenting nowadays???!!!

neway noice post... but how much ever people say that everyday shud be the V-day..it's still exciting for the ones who have a valentine. they get a reson to celebrate!!
u seem quite "tarsa hua" in this post!!

Friday, February 10, 2006 11:46:00 PM  
Blogger Vintage Girl said...

ii DON'T AGREE WiTH U. C'MON PPL WHO HAVE A VALENTiNE ENJOY iT. PLUS iT'S NOT JUST VALENTiNE'S DAY WHEN U SHOW LOVE, TELL ME WHY DO U CELEBRATE MOTHER'S DAY? U CAN SHOW LOVE TO UR MOM ERRYDAY RiGHT? iT'SS JUST A DAY TO HAVE FUN FOR THOSE WHO HAVE DATES AND ii THiBK iTS PRETTY OKAY AS LONG AS U DON'T TAKE STUPiD VOWS THAT U MENTiONED....

LATERR XOXOX

Sunday, February 12, 2006 1:41:00 PM  
Blogger Abhi said...

Happy V-day ppl.....
it was rly funny havin ppl cumin up 2 me askin who de hot gal from my locality was...
c'mon ppl dun u kno sarcasm when u see it. I dun have no hot gal in my colony...
Btw i m free ny1 lukin 4 a valentine?!!

Tuesday, February 14, 2006 10:13:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Isaw ur proposal on ur message thingy, i want to be ur valentine, love me tender, love me true
lovergirl

Wednesday, February 15, 2006 3:38:00 AM  
Blogger Vintage Girl said...

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!

Wednesday, February 15, 2006 8:57:00 AM  

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